Things we do without

What we're not having:

• bridal shower
• hen's night
• bachelor party
  
• rehearsal dinner
• table planning
• favours
• bridesmaids
• programs
• photographer
• corsages
• wedding rings
• guest book
• aisle runner
• flower girls
• security
• caterer
• swanky plates/cutlery/glasses/tablecloth/chairs...
• valet parking
• throw away bouquets
  
• reception dress
• reply cards
• place cards
• white dress
• suit
• grooms men
  
• open bar
• special underwear
• dj

There are probably more things but these are the ones I can think of right now. Lots of money in that list.